FREE ESSAY ON PEER PRESSURE

PEER PRESSURE

Children grow up and move into teenage lifestyles, involvement with their peers, and how
they look in other peoples eyes start to matter. Their hormones kick in, and they
experience rapid changes in their minds, and bodies. They also develop a mind of their
own, questioning the adult standards and need for their parental guidance. By trying new
values and testing ideas with peers there is less of a chance of being criticized. Even
though peer pressure can have positive effects, the most part is the bad part. 
Teens have more pressure to be cool, and to be accepted that's what makes them rebel of
do what mom or dad had always told them not to do. They may know that it is wrong but it
is all about looking cool for that second, or being safe and listen to your parents.
Actually, when you are faced with a situation that you know is wrong you don't think
about what your parents will think until you have already completed it and there is no
turning back. Then there comes the punishment. That makes the teen rebel more and do more
things to be "cool" and doesn't care.
When you are a teenager and you have friends that ask you to do something for them and
you do not then they get mad. Then think you are a loser and that is ever person's
nightmare, to not be liked. Peer pressure is no piece of cake. It is like choosing the
wrong thing for what you think is right at that very moment, and then regretting it
afterwards, because your parents find out. But most would not care about what they do
wrong or right. Unless there is a chance of parental disappointment, and a lot of the
time that is the case.
As children get older they seem to spend a lot more time with their friends, and a whole
lot less time with their parents. Therefore what their friends say and do rub off on
them, or they start to adopt what their friends do as right or routine. Even though they
have been taught most of their lives that it was wrong, or they were taught what was
right. They adapt a new style of clothes and a new vocabulary, mostly slang. And they get
new hobbies and new tastes in music, friends have a big impact on all these things.
These peer pressure incidents don't just occur in our teenage years. They also affect
adults. In the work place, they are pressured to do as good as the other by bosses and
owners and constantly compared to others. They are pressured to change the way they do
things so they can compare to the other "better" employees. They are submitted to
constant competition with their peers and they are always trying to be the best in what
they do.
Even though most of the pressure is when we are young and venerable, and well, curious.
We still have the worries and pressures when we are all grown up. We have friends and as
long as we have our friends we will have pressures. 
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